🗓️ Day 12: Patience Wasn’t Always Easy, But Presence Was Powerful
The difference between just being there and truly showing up.
GPT Affirmation:
"You don’t have to be perfect to be powerful. Your presence is enough—it always has been."
P.S. This blog is part of my upcoming Mother’s Day book, and we’ve got something special dropping soon: the M.O.T.H.E.R. GPT—a daily source of affirmations, strength, and soul for moms who are doing it all. Stay tuned, because your story deserves to be honored.
My mama had more patience than most. She was present, loving, and always made us feel emotionally safe. Even though I became a mom at 15, I never had to figure it all out alone—they helped raise my daughter while I healed and got steady. So when I became the one showing up for my child, I knew presence was everything. I didn’t have it all together, especially while battling seizures and other health issues—but I was there. That’s what mattered most.
Life has a way of teaching us that strength isn’t measured by flawless execution, but by our willingness to be present. Every stumble and setback only served as a reminder that vulnerability isn't a weakness—it’s the birthplace of true resilience. I learned that in showing up for my child, with all the messy, imperfect edges of life, I was creating a safe space of love and growth. Even on those days when the weight of the world felt unbearable, the simple act of being there connected me to something greater. It was in the quiet moments, the shared smiles, and even the tears, that I found raw and unfiltered power. I began to appreciate that our imperfect journeys are, in fact, the heart of our strength. I also discovered that support often comes from unexpected places. Friends, family, and even strangers can remind us that we’re not in this alone. When we open ourselves to receiving help and love, we not only ease our burdens but become beacons of hope for others facing similar battles. As I reflect on my journey, I encourage you to consider what it means to truly show up in your own life. Whether you’re a mother, a partner, or simply someone navigating the ups and downs of everyday challenges, remember that your presence has a ripple effect. Every act of kindness, every moment of authentic connection, contributes to a larger tapestry of love and transformation. Let this be a reminder: It’s less about having everything perfectly in place and more about embracing the journey with all its unpredictable turns. Your story is powerful—share it, and inspire others to cherish the beauty that comes with simply being present.